tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3565024711549173623.post3590614906575571887..comments2024-03-10T21:48:19.202-07:00Comments on CREATE A VOICE Blog-ver-sa-tions: Wisdom Wednesday "It's Complicated"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03198706713555326807noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3565024711549173623.post-24814148698335503432012-10-04T05:46:51.004-07:002012-10-04T05:46:51.004-07:00Overnight our stats doubled! Thank you and please ...Overnight our stats doubled! Thank you and please continue sharing our blog-ver-sa-tions and invite your friends to "Like" Create-A-Voice www.facebook.com/crea8avoice #tohavevision<br /><br />Thank you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198706713555326807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3565024711549173623.post-29995517769322391582011-06-02T06:44:22.471-07:002011-06-02T06:44:22.471-07:00@Melodic: I agree with your wisdom and people do m...@Melodic: I agree with your wisdom and people do make things harder than it really is. Here's the twist in conversation 1 "the high school relationship" the speaker could be a man waiting for his woman to understand. There are men who desire the hand of their woman, can cook and have the ability to nurture his child's smile...something to think about;-)<br /><br />@Ms. Tamm: Girl you go hard!...lol I like it. Yes strength is needed. In each scenario lies insecurities; being alone, physical discipline and denial. I would like to see our spiritual eye kick in, for our guidance and wisdom...not being all holy but having a disciplined conscious.<br /><br />#createavoiceCreate A Voicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16058922500088835284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3565024711549173623.post-774966433174748872011-06-01T20:49:00.374-07:002011-06-01T20:49:00.374-07:00Great post, I love this one. "It's Compli...Great post, I love this one. "It's Complicated" I tend to lmbo or rotf every time I see this as someone's status or hear someone speak those two words, why? Because first I want to know what's so "complicated" about it and second why would anyone want to stay in a "complicated" situation? I know it's probably not a laughing matter to the individuals involved in this "complicated" madness but it's funny to me, I guess because I just don't get it. Truth is it's usually not the relationship that's 'complicated" it's the two people or the situation that makes it “complicated.” Most people stay in these so called "complicated" relationships because they think the person will eventually come around, are afraid of starting over and are afraid of being alone. They get so use to being in these "complicated" relationships that it's almost un-normal to be in one that's not. Personally when I see/hear "It's Complicated" I view the individual as being weak a person afraid to leave what they consider “ COMPLICATED" I mean really what's so hard about walking away from, getting over, cutting ties and leaving a "complicated" situation? Waiting for a proposal, a baby, sex, money, comfort.........etc should never be a reason to stay in a "complicated" relationship. If "IT'S COMPLICATED" then un-complicate it and get out!Ms. Tammhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13953521923906613753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3565024711549173623.post-72078027165310788342011-06-01T15:10:58.427-07:002011-06-01T15:10:58.427-07:00I don't believe relationships are complicated....I don't believe relationships are complicated...the people who hold these relationships are "complicated." In reading each scenario, it is blatantly obvious that: #1. People do not know when and how to part (break up), and #2. Take a chance. In scenario one, she made her bed and now is laying in it. If the topic of marriage has arisen a numerous amount of times and he adheres to the same response, 9 times out of 10 you are not getting married. Having a baby wasn't going to change his mind and she can not get angry because he planted his feet before the baby was even a factor. The situation was easy...either you conform or flee. Same thing with scenario #2, the marriage is over, but sex is what brings them together. Nothing has change as it relates to the problem and the relationship is not better so part ways. <br /><br />Again, people are what make relationships complicated. If we open our eyes and stay true to what we see, know, and believe in our hearts instead of re-enacting to our "What ifs," there would be no "complicated" statuses.Melodic ~ The Poet Laureatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14928147686879910644noreply@blogger.com