Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Wisdom Wednesday..have a little Fun

Every Friday Night, it's this....
Feeling frustrated? You deny every social invitation. Are you massaging your own shoulders and neck area, trying to relieve that tension? and...Every Friday, is it the same routine for the past 3 years? If any of this relates to you, it means; you are probably single, divorced and simply trying your best to keep your dignity in a world of boredom.

Remembering your past activities, are just not today's desires anymore. Our desire is simply, identify new moderate ways to enjoy ourselves. Meanwhile, this hiatus being out of touch has brought on, sort of apprehensive nature from accepting invites. I understand, most social invites are denied because of your previous association with a lifestyle of sex, drugs and music (clubbing). Your most acclaimed reason for denying invites is, " I do not my business out there!"
“That does it," said Jace. "I'm going to get you a dictionary this year." "Why?" Isabelle said. "So you can look up fun. I'm not sure you know what it means.”  ― Cassandra Clare, City of Ashes
I could list 10 things to do locally, or give you a strategy plan to remain focused and/or determined. What needs to be done, should have been done a long time ago. Stop clickin' your profile name in the upper right-hand corner of the page, refreshing it like something magical will happen or change!

The truth is, now life translates a different purpose for you. Your interests are more aligned around faith and having a progressive vision. It doesn't mean you should cut off your friends and family, but try widening your social circle and find people of like interests. Especially those individuals where you may find a mutual appreciation, because of like interests. Our confidence, self esteem and piety should be secure enough, to explore new territories with a sound heart.

"Fun is what you make it and how you design it! The re-invented "you" cannot like, what the old 'you' loved."

Do not expect others to understand this change without consistent communication. Share your vision with your family/ friends, at least then they will better understand and feel closer to your mission. Fun is not only the good times of sex, drugs and music; but Fun can be the use of imagination and thinking outside the box!

"being an original thinker is a gift. It's your imagination most try to regain after childhood and its few owners, do not want to embrace their adulthood."

Think about the world as is and create new possibilities as an active thinker. Intelligence is the human being's superpower. Explore new territories, guarding yourself with a pious heart of confidence and secured self esteem. Have a little fun being you....
Wisdom Wednesday are reminders for social conversations - the sharing of honest opinions and wise ideals. All of us have a value worth sharing; it may motivate another to stop, continue and/or begin a certain process in our personal growth or social development.
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  1. Very good :) We are mature adults yet we still fear relating our transformations to the ones around us. "Be direct and to the point." Straight with no chaser- "this is who I am now, I don't need your approval, but I'm just letting you know."

    1. Yes, once I didn't communicate my vision with those around me with clarity and things fells apart; because we failed to understand one another. Totally agree with you.... #createavoice