Wisdom Wednesday are thoughts for social conversation and the sharing of honest opinions, ideals, and Wisdom. All of us have a value worth sharing; it may motivate another to stop, continue and/ or begin a certain process in our personal or social development.
We apologize for not posting last week, our days got mixed up and confused. During the past week, we've participated in some interesting conversations and experienced life lessons; which led to developing this wise advisory rule. This is mainly for the emotionally damaged divorcee, single men and women over 40 and young aspiring people with goals to accomplish.
"The 90/10 Rule is applying 90% Intelligence (rationality) and 10% Desire (emotion). Meaning, one should carefully pace themselves when developing a new opportunity. Approach it through the application of one's intellect rather than desire."
For the emotional damaged divorcee whether male or female. Here you are back in the world and you're being approached by what seems to be a qualifying candidate. Due to your recent involvement, certain trust issues and insecurities are very relevant. In the process of learning more about this person, approach this with a 90/10 perspective. It could help the evaluation process by simplifying desirable complications. For women allow a trusted family member or platonic friend (preferably males) interview this person in helping expedite a conscious decision for longevity.
"Intelligence is the Human Being super-power"
In the case of Single Men or Women over 40 and never married or have been single for some time. Face it, it's you. Not being consistent and/or committed is always someone's else fault and we never seem to hold ourselves accountable for the mishaps. We are the common factor for each fraction and if were to apply the Ninety-Ten Rule things may take a better turn with the next one, what? You know there will be a next one...lol
and the Young person with your whole life ahead of you, G-d Knows Best. Do not allow desires to proceed judgment. In all reality a true relationship constitutes marriage, but in our pop culture driven society this institution is becoming unreal, surreally! Emotional Intelligence is a gift especially for a craft, talent and/or an ability. Intelligence is our super-power for critical thinking and decision making and its use could produce better outcomes.
Most of us are playing the last half or 4th quarter of life. Choosing wisely is more important now than ever before. The young person who's showing patience it may seem difficult, but in the long scheme of life "a wise choice now will beat an angry baby mama or a broke daddy later." Utilizing our intelligence with a solid foundation and principles, could guarantee more certified clarity.
Let's move our decision-making back into a circle of qualified trustful intellects; whether of experience or skill. A good team can help us facilitate our lives a little better over the next few years.
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